Memorable Moments with My Batchmates (A.K.A. Granny Moments)

Okay. Here it is. Here is the post containing the memorable moments that I have had with my batchmates. I’m at the risk of sounding like an old grandmother with a bad case of nostalgia — but that’s just according to Adrian’s opinion. Whatever. XP Peace, bro. Hehe.

Anyway, I’ve tried to write everything down in a narrative format so that this entry would not read like an acknowledgement portion of a thesis manuscript. So, here goes.

One more disclaimer: This is a very long piece of writing. Do not attempt to read it unless you are willing to spend perhaps the next 30 minutes travelling back and forth from the past to the present and back to the past.

Okay. This is it.

Granny Moment #1

“Can You feel my passion? Can You see my hunger? Do You know how I long for You? No walls between us, take away this darkness, come break this heart of stone… hear my cry… Open up the sky!”

The stage is set. The place – the old Destiny Center just above the Aqua Altria refilling station. The dates – June 30 and 31, 2004. The lives of around 20 or so freshmen are about to be changed. Two of those lives include that of a quiet girl from Benguet and that of a petite girl from Kalinga. The two have been assigned to be Bosom Buddies and have spent their time at the Encounter God Retreat 1 praying for each other, confessing their sins to one another, and worshipping and crying together. Of course, I’m the quiet girl from Benguet. And the petite one …? My Bosom buddy, Binazir Edna Lumas-i. Granny Moment #1 is with Bina, who is now somewhere over the rainbow, out in the professional world, busy being a career woman. Miss you Bins…

Granny Moment #2

Still at the Aqua Altria Destiny Center. Now with a fellow computer science student, my blocmate, Cristina Joy Bolotaolo. It’s Saturday night and we’re both at the weekly Worship Team practice. Cristina Joy tells me that she’s there because the setting reminds her of her high school days when she would hang out with her band. Me? I have no idea why I’m there at the practice. I just tagged along behind some people, and viola! I’m there at the practice.

Fast forward 4 years later and I’m still with the worship team. Cristina Joy has found her place in the intercessory ministry but I’ll never forget Granny Moment #2 with her. Love you Cristina!

Granny Moment #3

Unit 5. Men’s Dormitory. College, Laguna. I burst into Room 5102 holding a violin case, anxious and harried. I pour out my anxieties to a fellow Ilokana, saying that I have just encountered a major problem and that I need her help. I have just broken the bow of my violin – which technically is not my violin, so technically it’s not my bow – and I don’t know how to fix it. We spend hours trying to fix the bow using a tube of mighty bond but, alas, the bow remains a broken bow. But that Granny Moment with Melody Joy Gamboa would always be worth treasuring.

Granny Moment #4

Unit 3. I’m at the Men’s dormitory, in a secluded place, speaking to my super classmate, Malyn Binamera. I’m sharing to her the story about the Samaritan woman at the well. I know that Malyn is searching, and a lot of people have already been inviting her to the upcoming Encounter God Retreat, and I decide to take this chance. This is Granny Moment #4.

Granny Moment #5

New York New York! Three girls examine a photograph with a New York background in their hands. They have just finished Granny Moment #5 — canvassing for fish crackers to be used for their batch’s fundraising project — and have decided to take a break and have their pictures taken at the photo studio in the Robinson’s Supermarket. The girls only see each other as mere acquaintances, but fast forward 4 years later and you’ll find the same girls engaged in intimate girl talks and giggling sessions. Who are those three? Well, it’s none other than me, Melody, and Frances Anne Tuanqui.

Granny Moment #6

It’s the finals week of the second semester of the school year 2004-2005. Some freshmen are gathered burning the midnight oil at the Pink Hall in the Men’s Dormitory. I do not know what I’m doing there. After all, I have just found out that I have been exempted from taking up the final exam in CMSC11. But I’m still there. So I simply amuse myself by playing bounce with someone’s cell phone. I finally find it boring and so I engage myself in Granny Moment #6, a gabfest with a new found friend, Jonalyn Nunez. I find Jona talkative and while the rest of the gang drain their minds reviewing for the Math 36 finals, Jona and I talk… and talk… and talk… and talk. Love you Jones!

Granny Moment #7

I’m with my friend Jonalyn Nunez. Ever since our gab fest, I have discovered that she was an amazingly good company. We find ourselves hanging out near the gate of the Men’s Dormitory, when another friend – Ma. Eleanor Gumtang – joins us. The night becomes Granny Moment #7 and we find ourselves talking about life, love lives, and at the end of the night, we find ourselves making a vow to cover one another from their current crushes. Haha. What a night.

Granny Moment #8

Freshman days are over. It’s time to turn a new page as the gang and I (may ganun? Hehe) start our year as sophomore students. Granny Moment #8 is actually during the second semester of that year when another batchmate – Jake Ernest Seroje – and I are invited by the head of the SOD’s intercessory ministry to lead in a particular day in the ministry’s the daily intercession. Kuya Ryan has just laid out the invitation to us and we decide to talk it over afterwards. That night Jake and I become engaged in a heated discussion, weighing the pros and cons, debating with one another, and I become frustrated with Jake who can’t seem to make up his mind. Oh well. Bahala siya. In the end, we decide to take up the challenge. But now I’m back with the worship team. Go figure.

Granny Moment #9

Palawan. Bataraza to be exact. A team from the UP SOD has been invited to conduct the EGR at the Alliance Youth Camp and most of the members of the team have been tasked to go as preachers. I am assigned to talk on “True and False Christianity” and my partner for that topic is Jayson Relevo. However, Jayson decides to give up that topic to me, meaning, I have to preach it on my own. In the end, Jayson also preaches, but he preaches on another topic — “Victorious Christian Living.” So all’s well that ends well for Granny Moment #9.

Granny Moment #10

Still at Bataraza. Ate Mary Jane Ramos is at my left, giving me a side hug and tells her cellmate, Myla Christy Rellosa, how incredibly huggable I am. Myla takes her place beside me, hugs me and says — “Oo nga!” Fast forward 4 years later and, whenever she would need encouragement, Myla would always try to steal hugs from me. All because of Granny Moment #10.

Granny Moment #11

Encounter God Retreat 6. The encounter is over and everyone – campers and workers alike – are celebrating. I breathe out a breath of thanks to Him who has provided my spirit strength to pray for the event. As I stand in sweet melancholy, a brother approaches me and releases a silent prayer to my tired spirit. The brother is none other than Adrian Crisanto, a fellow warrior in the Lord who has faithfully battled it out with me and the rest of that team during that memorable camp. That’s Granny Moment #11 – a moment with the guy who speaks Nihongo in the secret place.

(Sidenote: O diba ang drama Adrian? Kaso lang, simula nang inunahan mo akong mag-uno sa uno… Feeling ko lagi mo na akong inaapi. Na-overwrite na tuloy ang moment #11. Joke lang kapatid. Peace tayo. Hehe. (^_^)V)

Granny Moment #12

Destiny School of Leaders 2. Kuya Les has just asked the each student what they thought their personal calling was. I boldly stand up and say that my calling involves going to the nations as an ambassador for Christ. A brother approaches me afterward saying that he was amazed because he has recently seen me in a dream standing over a specific nation. That brother was Wilbert Lirag and that was Granny Moment #12. Cool.

Granny Moment #13

McDonald’s Los Banos. 2nd floor. I’m is having a date with a fellow intercessor who has been assigned to be my prayer partner. We have just realized that we are not really that close and decide to make up for that by having a date. And that’s the reason why Rachel Ann Alba and Ifind ourselves gulping down Mc Floats, talking about everything from intercession to crushes and love lives. That’s Granny Moment #13 for you.

Granny Moment #14

It’s Thursday morning and it’s time for me to lead the daily intercession. I head towards the library, wondering who would be there. Afternoons are no problems for intercessors but a lot find it really hard getting up for the morning intercessions. I’m ready to intercede alone when I find two brothers waiting, preparing themselves, sitting at the back of the library. One of them is Henry Lacson and I am blessed because he has just made his “come back” to the ministry. I smile at him and the other brother present and, for Granny Moment #14, say “Let’s pray.”

Granny Moment #15

October 2006. Everyone is experiencing the aftershock of the Bagyong Milenyo and I am lost. I’m caught up in another storm because my housemates and I have just been evicted from the house that we were staying in. Sure, I’ve already made reservations to stay at the Vetmed Dorm for the next semester, but I still need to find a good evacuation site because the semester is not yet officially over! Good thing there’s a vacancy at my Men’s Dorm roomate’s house. Thus, the post-storm season a.k.a. Granny Moment #15 is spent in Vanessa Mae Lumen’s quaint apartment. Miss you, vanie…

Granny Moment #16

Yellow, white, yellow, white – our Vetmed room is definitely perking up. The old color used to be blue, but Granny Moment #16 dictates that we should paint it using swirls of pale yellow and white. Welcome to my – err our — new room. I’m sharing this room with none other than Ms. Cynde Valeza who becomes my room mate for the next two semesters, who will experience my share of tears, tantrums, and choleric moments. Haha. Miss you too, Cyndz.

Granny Moment #17

What would these series of Granny Moments be without one with my best friend, Jane Marian Luis? This unforgettable memory takes place at the front of the main library, in the corner, almost at the right side of the main library. Our eyes are red and swollen because we have just experienced being walked out on. All because of our hard headedness. My face is stained with tears and I borrow a handkerchief from Marian. I’m in desperate need of encouragement and it’s a good thing that Marian is so game and agrees when I suggest that we drown our sorrows with sugar. We head towards Ahl’s Cakes and Kuya Val thinks that we have just fought with each other. He would never really know why our eyes were that swollen that night. Unforgettable. Haha.

Granny Moment #18

Febfair 2008. Prince Marcis Manuel gets a dose of my choleric side when I speak to him about the upcoming C.E.s. But then I switch to my softer side and impart to him my heart for the Kids Ministry. Good thing Prince is a phlegmatic, or else, he would never ever approach me again after Granny Moment #18.

Granny Moment #19

Another brother gets a dose of choleric Mari when I try to fix things up with his relationship with a sister whom he has just had a fight-slash-misunderstanding with. Let’s hide the brother by the name John Mark Illarde, and the sister by – nevermind. Anyway, after Granny Moment #19, although I know that my intentions were good, I’m still left wondering whether I did more harm than good. Oh well.

Granny Moment #20

Where would I be without my partner in crime, Jovelyn Saligumba? Who would almost always be game and ready for a fully loaded meal, a chowking lauriat, a burger king steakhouse meal – and any other big meal that you can think of? Anyway, Granny Moment #20 takes place at KFC where Jova and I make a pact to eat together, and stick together for the next few weeks… months… whatever… for a reason that would only be known by us. Hehe. Love you, Jovs.

Granny Moment #21

Crossroads. Ma. Shiela Data and I have been housemates in our sophomore year but it has only been recently that we’ve decided to draw closer to one another. And the common thing that we have for this season is this – Crossroads. This becomes our topic as we dine together at Selinas talking about our plans, our future, our call… and just have our Granny Moment #21 together.

Granny Moment #22

Ani Residence. Post-graduation madness. I’m with Cristina Joy and Glenn Mark Tolentino and we are at Bae, ready to take part in Darla and Carla’s Graduation celebration. The Anis are celebrating the graduation of the 2 who are incidentally both magna cum laudes. Cristina, Glenn and I join them and get our fill of good eats that night in Granny Moment #22.

Granny Moment #23 and #24

I have none to write yet for Granny Moment #23 and #24. This slot is reserved for two of my batch mates, Ruby Labinghisa and Jolly Anne Gibe. Contact me if you wish to avail of these slots. Hehe.

And so ends my walk down memory lane – for now. I guess it’s a rather long piece of writing, but anyway… I didn’t get to write a super long acknowledgement page for my manuscript so I’ll make up for it here. Drama. Hehe. Anyway, to all my batchmates – thank you for all those Granny Moments! Haha. You have found a place in my heart! Naks.

(Parang nagpapaalam lang no? Hehe)

10 thoughts on “Memorable Moments with My Batchmates (A.K.A. Granny Moments)”

  1. This is a really long piece of writing.

    Anyway, there are no entries about the SOD MDB sessions at the stairway between Unit 4 and 5 — but who cares. Hehe. Because I have a lot more moments besides that.

    Diba, Adrian? Hehe

  2. hi mari. hahaha. really?! ngaun lng? newei, ur really one of my treasured friend – batchmates ever since (w/c means not just recently) bwahahaha. at kung ako gagawa ng moments wd you..ang akin was nung naging prayer partner kita tapos naextend tayo at d tayo nkapgpray. so we decided to continue it the next day….tapos haba kwentuhan uli sa freedom park. newei, natapos naman and we prayed for each other. :)

  3. yah shie, I remember that…


    Kaya recent lang ung nilagagay kong moment with you kasi medyo magkaclash tayo before right? noong housemate days pa… hehe…

    pero yon, I remember that time at the freedom park and I’ll mark it as another granny moment in history…


    Love you shie. (^___^)

  4. I thought I appeared very holy here. Thanks to your sound PR. Hehe.

    Ang haba nga. Anyway, I read the whole thread.

    Funny how we tend to remember simple things and memories with a person who simply can’t recall the exact scene. (And in my case, all I could remember at that time was my aching legs and my frustration in intercession.)

    Thanks, Granny Mari (and that’s a perfect rhyme).


  5. Adrian,

    Haha. Thanks for reading through the entire thing. Mahaba lang. Hehe.

    Yeah, it’s funny when that happens. You know, the memories thing. Like, naalala ko yung session namin ni Shiela sa freedom park pero yung turones ni Cristina Joy — nagawa ko pala yon? Hehe.

    Maybe it’s the simple things that we do that we do not think are worth remembering — maybe these are the ones that are worth remembering.

    Thanks for the comment, Lolo Adriano.


  6. hahaha mari… sa harapan mo talaga ako magcocomment :).. ayan comment :) heheheh

    well reading seems like napakatanda mo na…
    hahaha ikaw pa namn ang pinakabata sa batch…
    bakit kaya naisispan mo magblog ng ganito…
    well hindi ko pa rin yun malimutan sa mcdo sa may glass window :) hehehe

    one thing I will always remeber is your huge smiley (‘____’)

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